Perception vs. Reality

Shawna, early 20's, waltzes into the conference room with confidence where she meets with recruiters for her second step in her employment interview. She plops down in the chair, her hair is messy, and the top button of her ruffled blouse is undone. Shawna struggles to sit up straight and keep both eyes open as the interview process continues. Shawna thinks she is a shoe-in for this positon. She aced the first part of the interview and the interviewer recommended she come in to meet the rest of the team.

The recruiters first impression is that Shawna needed to take more time with personal grooming. They are of the impression that she is recovering from a late night out on the town and lacks energy.

Jose, mid 30's, had a successful telephone interview and was invited in for a personal interview.He comes into the interview wearing his best dark blue suit without a tie. His shoes appeared worn and tattered, yet he feels he looks professional and confident. Unfortunately, Jose stepped in dog poo on his way to the interview. His obvious wardrobe malfunction leaves a bad taste in the recruiter's mouth.Sadly, both Shawna and Jose left a bad first impression. While they were qualified for the position for which they applied, the recruiter saw something else entirely.

While the visual image you present is important, so is the impact you make through the other senses. This is particularly difficult for a person who smokes. They must have resistance to smoke that ciggerette before the interview. Imagine how the smell of tobacco impacts a person who does not smoke. Now imagine that odor in a small office space where most employment interview take place. It is an automatic put-off.

My advice, before going to your employment interview ask someone (family or friend or even a stranger) how you look before going into the meeting. Ask them to be honest so that you will know what you may need to change.

You will be shaking hands with everyone you meet once you enter the interview area.
The receptionist (Gatekeeper), the recruiter or a team of recruiters. Make sure you are well groomed. Hair combed and in place, hands well groomed..fingernails clipped and moisturized, clean smile, bright eyes..use eye drops if necessary. Your body language speaks volumes! Sit up straight. Be attentive during your interview. Get plenty of rest the night before your big day and eat breakfast before you go.

People do judge based on appearance. Make sure your first impression is memorable in a positive way.

Dona Woodley-Davis
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